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Grrr STUPID STUPIDITY

Once a relationship is over, and all the talking has been done, there are TWO kinds of people, some people cannot leave well enough ALONE, they have to keep picking at the wound, QUESTIONING what has already happened, like it's still happening and not already over. They’re not able to FACE the FACT that it IS OVER, there is NOTHING that can resurrect the situation and to try is to CAUSE anger and resentment? While Others understand that everything that needed to be said has been, to further discuss it will just bring out further resentment and pain. When two of these are in this situation, someone is bound to get hurt. I have real problems having sympathy for that kind of self-abuse. Can someone please fucking explain this to me?

~Rev

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(Anonymous)
Jun. 24th, 2004 08:17 pm (UTC)
Laura the wise
Ok, here it is. Girls are stupid. Period. If they have a vagina, it's pretty damn likely that when it comes to relationships they won't have one single once of common sense. (myself included) Ok. I'm done. Smooches.
xeroyne
Jun. 24th, 2004 09:59 pm (UTC)
Dr. David would be happy to explain:

There are no lions or other wild beasts threating us and our children. Thus we must create drama or life feels somehow empty. That empty feeling is simply our detatchment from the fact that we still exist in a biological mindframe of survival of the fittest. How did the human learn to tame the beast? They played out a scenario over and over in their head.

Dr. David suggests that you tell this person to go back to Africa.
synthcat
Jun. 24th, 2004 10:41 pm (UTC)
Stupidity Abounds.....
Such is the pathetic state of some people. Those scab-pickers are the same people who would slow down to look at a horrible road accident because they have no interesting lives of their own and feed on drama.

I hate people like that. With passion.

And it's such bullshit when they defend their actions by calling it "human nature." What a horseshit.

My personal policy is that when my friends' relationships end, I leave them alone beyond offering them condolences and basic support. I think that my friends are capable of sorting out their own crises without having outsiders psychoanalyze every little fucking nuance.

-m
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